My life has slowly embarked on a journey of extreme self-doubt and general complications to get things done. I find it difficult to get through the day without being awfully upset over at least one or two people that cannot, and frankly would not, be controlled, as well as many other little things. I have allowed this self-deprecating form of a loathing attitude take over every decision, every action, every thought and basically every breathing moment.
Somewhere between growing up, graduating, and getting married, I lost connection with my inner soul. I forgot to bring the little girl with me on a journey so clichéd. The girl that wanted to change the world, reach the stars and conquer the unknown. She made big plans and even bigger realities, all in her head. I forgot to connect and in tune my inner reality with the outer reality.
Not realizing that the reason life creeped up on me was because I let it. I let negativity take over my naiveté. I let too much caution cloud my judgment. I let disappointment settle in and somewhere, lost connection with my spirit. All for what? There is not enough time to meet friends as much or plan out activities like before. I have been under a giant rock with unhealthy amount of job search and wrapping up the clinical research program.
I lost touch with things that made me happy, for example, helping others, being the light for people in need, bringing out the positive in others, always looking at the positives and never allowing negativity come close. And most importantly smiling for no reason.
I feel I went through so much that I should be awarded, just to be able to make it this far. Not for a moment I let myself peek on the other side of the coin, where I should be thankful for whatever little I have and however much I am able to do. I want to carve a beautiful and real quote in my brain: Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dream.
So what if it’s difficult? so what if it’s hard? It’s a path less traveled. What’s meant to be is meant to be and being depressed about it won’t change anything. “When you want something with true heart, the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it”, so let’s be motivated because now is the time I need my very own psychologist. And who better than myself? If I cannot change my own though process then what good am I?
Let’s overlook the negativity and surround us with positive thoughts. Embrace the beauty in things and wait till the heavens smile down on you.
All is well !