I have been thinking of changing my writing style for so long that it seems like I won’t implement it anytime soon. So many things on my mind nowadays that it requires hours for me to make those lavish changes on the ever so limited wordpress. Besides this, I have to download new music, since honestly I know all the songs by heart that I been listening to for the past whole year.
And apart from worrying about all this, I have yet another topic to write about. It is a pretty common and most discussed global issue, or at least in our side of the world. Bigger than 40th anniversary of landing on the moon. It is the declaration of starting a happy life with our better half, the laduu of marriage. Ever since a daughter is born in a family, they fill her head up with fantasies of a prince charming that will come to rescue her from the cruel world of dish washing or dusting (most, not all). If parents avoid these stories, Disney helps drill it in. I don’t remember reading or watching sleeping beauty, beauty and the beast, Pocahontas etc as a child. Though I do remember reading Casper and wuthering heights, as a child! But the girls who do read these … my heart goes out to all of you because reality my dear is more important than focusing the camera on two characters only. This also goes for the guys, they are “meant” to be strong to be able to rescue their true love.
Personally, I never had time to spend on reading until grade 5. I was the most annoyingly active child, a definite winner in all sports (even if I didn’t know how to play the game.. ahem you know how 
). And when I started reading, I chose the most hard to understand authors, as a kid I didn’t get half of what they said but it was more important to carry a book with me than to understand it. I read books that had captions “don’t read when alone, and if you do keep repeating to yourself ‘its only a book.” Now, what is one to fantasize while reading these books!!
Anyway. Now that I think I can have a say that has got to make sense about marriage, I am writing it down here. To me marriage is not for people who “think”, period. No, seriously the more you think about what qualities you need, what satisfies you, what you adore, what you can tolerate, and which qualities are a big no no, buddy you’re done. You’re done way before you started. One has to be blank headed to make it a success. Once you are not aware of what is okay and what is not, you tend to teach each other and learn off each other making it a more tolerable and long lasting relation. To all the people who think they need to “understand’ the person before they take a step further, it is a good form of worry but the fact is you can’t ever know how the person is until you put them in different situation. And by that I don’t mean get your friend to test how truthful he/she is. Life is a lot more than a few friends and their tricks, situations are so challenging that even our imagination does not possess the capability to picture it. Your better half is not obliged to know the anatomy of chicken/computer/makeup if he/she don’t want to, because they don’t have to!
Once you know a person too well, you judge them. And judgment often takes you down a hill you never expect.
Its up to you how you take it, as a sweet dream or a beautiful nightmare .. So take it easy and CHILL!
Astalavistaa
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